Do you wish you could put some flowers, or clean the headstone of your dad's graveside, however, you live hundreds of miles away.
The purpose of this page is to give you the opportunity~
"To Do Unto Others, as You Would Want Them to Do Unto You".
If you keep this famous motto in mind, this page will work itself.
Thank You.
(This site list will ONLY those that were killed in the Vietnam War)

Alabama

I am so fortunate to live only 3 minutes from my dad's burial site. That is my safe place - when life gets to be too much and I need a break, I can always stop by, sit and talk to my dad, or just be quiet and listen.  I always feel better after "a visit".  I can only imagine how difficult it would be to live miles away and not have the luxury of visiting whenever the urge hit.  I live just north of Birmingham, AL.  I am more than willing to go to a grave site anywhere in Alabama for a visit, place flowers, clean, or whatever is needed.  Please contact me through my VVA Chapter's email. 

Deisha Pendergrass Rosser
Daughter of Vernon F. Pendergrass, KIA 3/4/68
Sep99

Los Angeles National Cemetery 

  (or Los Angeles/Orange Co)
Jeanette Chervony

Evergreen Cemetery- Los Angeles, CA

What a great site!  I would be honored to place a flower on the grave of anyone buried at the old Evergreen Cemetery in Los Angeles.  There are not many Vietnam vets there, but lots of older one's.
Joe Walker
Jun00

Riverside National Cemetery, CA

I would be honored to visit any gravesite a Riverside National Cemetery, Riverside, California.  I was lucky that my dad (USMC Ret) returned each time, serving three tours of duty.  He is now buried in this cemetery & I visit frequently. 
Colleen Krouse-11/01 

Rowland Heights, Ca 

Hi, I would be happy to visit someones father and maintain there gravesite. Quenn of heaven cemetary in Rowland Heights, Ca 
Janet Torres
12/00

Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery in San Diego, CA**

I'll be happy to volunteer to visit burial sites for anyone that has a loved one at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery.  Just let me know, feel free to pass my name onto anyone that would like for me to do this for them. 

Sincerely, Rose Anderson-Blayden
Please visit my website.
Apr99
 
 

**I would like to volunteer to place flowers, clean headstones or do any other kind of work or obtain information for families of men and women buried at Ft. Rosecrans National Cemetery in San Diego, CA. I visit the cemetery once a year on Memorial Day and place flowers on the grave of a person I pick at random, but I would be happy to go any time. Please let me know how I can help. 

Patricia Stewart
May00
 
 

**I would be honored to visit anyone at Ft. Rosecrans.  I'm usually in the "O" section (as in L, M, N, O...)
Barbara Shaw (San Juan Capistrano)
Jun00

Central Coast Area of California

I am able to visit cemetaries on the Central Coast Area of California (San Luis Obispo, Monterey & Santa Barbara Co)
Kristie (& Bryce) Dilger- Daughter of SP4 Dennis J. Stanley, KIA 1/3/69
Jun00

Bay Pines National Cemetery,FL

To any and all SDIT siblings:
I live in St. Petersburg, Florida. Only about 15 minutes away from Bay Pines National Cemetery.  If you have any loved ones you would like visited; please just let me know.  I would be quite happy and honored to assist in any way possible.
Love to all, Kimberly

Columbus ~ Ft. Benning, GA

I am here for anyone who needs me in Columbus, Ga. i live 5 mins from Ft. Benning and Atlanta is an hour away from me.  Alabama is only 10 mins aways. I would be more than happy to help out anyone i can. . .
Just let me know. . .Crystal Lawrence-Hood

 Oahu, HI

I am stationed in Hawaii on Oahu and would be honored to visit any Viet Nam veteran's grave site and spruce it up or place a lei on it for special occasions. I hve access to the "Punchbowl" the national military grave site
of the Pacific but not Hawaiian cultural grave sites.
Contact-LTC Stephen Barger

Chicago, IL

I live in the South Suburbs of Chicago and would be more than willing to visit for someone who is unable to. My dad is in North Dakota, where I am originally from, and I really miss being able visit him.
Just contact me and let me know what I can do....    Heidi
13Dec97

Olathe, KS

My dad is buried in Mount Hill, VA just outside of Danville, VA.  The cemetery is right off of Highway 58.  The name of the cemetery I believe is the Mount Hill Cemetery.  I would like for someone to visit his grave that lives there and put the flowers on it for me.  I live in Olathe, KS that is a suburb of the Kansas City, KS area.  If someone father is buried here and they have moved away from this area I would love to be able to help them out by doing this for someone else.  If someone would like this done for them please e-mail me.
Thanks .....Mary M. Lynch Fitzpatrick
13Nov97

Fort Snelling Cemetery, MN

I was just surfing around when I came upon your site. I am from Minneapolis and I live there in the summer. I frequent the Ft. Snelling National Cemetary quite often to visit the resting place of my grandmother. She is buried there because my grandfather served in the military. I am offering my services to whom ever would like me to leave something for a relative of theirs who is also buried at Fort Snelling. Thank you.
Sincerely, Chris Anderson
Apr99

Jefferson Barraks National Cemetery- St Louis, MO

Michelle and I live an hour east of St. Louis, but we go into the city from time to time, and I go to Lambert International Airport often.  We would be honored to visit the resting place of a father/brother/son/friend in the Jefferson Barracks National Cemetary on behalf of the family.  We also try to visit as many names as we can manage when the moving walls get within driving distance.  Contact us, we'd be honored.
Wade & Michelle Baugh
08/00

New Jersy Area Cemeteries, NJ

My Name is Lisa. I am stationed in Cape May, New Jersey.  I would be very honored to visit a gravesite for anyone in the New Jersey area.  I also travel to SC via I-95 and would stop along the way to place flowers and take a photo of headstones that may have not been seen.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Lisa Jackson-Naame
USCG
12/01

Long Island National Cemetery, NY

 I would be honored to visit your loved one. I am available to visit at anytime.
Laurette Kanavos

Daton, OH

I will be more than pleased to visit your father's grave in Dayton, Ohio.  We have a hugh National Military Cemetary at the VA Center.  Plus, quite a few other cemetaries in the area with Military Burial Areas.  Just let me know who and when and what you'd like placed.  I'd be most honored to help you honor your loved-one who served and died for our freedom and this great nation. 
Catherine I. Boudrow
Jun00

 Portland, OR

I am available to visit cemeteries in the Portland, OR area. 
Larry Serfass
May99

Rock Hill, SC

"Hello"!! My dad was a MIA and finnally laid to rest Feb 13th 1984 in Altoona Pennsylvania.
I now live in Rock Hill South Carolina.  Though I am lucky enough to get to go back home to visit daddy's grave I would like to volunteer to visit someone's grave here in Rock Hill or the surrounding area. Thanks!
Beth Ann Workman
08/00

Chattanooga National Cemetery , TN

I'd be more than happy to volunteer to visit burial sites for anyone that has a loved one at the Chattanooga National Cemetery.  Just let me know,and feel free to give my name to anyone that would like for me to do the same for them. I live just 5 minutes away, and can take a digital photograph for you, if you wish.
My father is resting in The Fort Sam Houston Cemetery, Texas  (A long way from Tennessee), so I understand the pain of not being able to visit, But my Mother is resting here at the Chattanooga National Cemetery, and I visit her regularly, not just on holidays.
Contact me, Robert Wm. Clark
Jun 00
 
 

Memphis, TN

Hi, My name is Vickie Peal. My cousin Daniel W. Majors is buried in the National Cemetry in Memphis, Tennessee. I am close to the cemetery and would love to volunteer with taking anything to the gravesite for anyone in need. I know that my cousin had a daughter named Veronica that I haven't seen since we were children. I would love to be back in contact with her. I would also Like to be able to help anyone else that has a family member here in Memphis. I also lost an Uncle in WWII, Jacob Gonzales. Have found very little info. Not sure what I am doing wrong. If there is anything I can do to help. Please feel free to contact me. 
God Bless, 
Vickie Peal
June 01

Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery,TX 

I live in San Antonio, Texas.  If anyone has a loved one buried at Fort Sam Houston National Cemetery, I would be honored to visit on her or his behalf.
Kay Thomas
July 99

Payson, Utah 

Hello my name is Kristen Cook and I live in Payson, Utah. I would love to volunteer my and my  families time ( husband and 3 boys) to visit, clean a headstone, take flowers etc. for any one who cant visit as often as they would like. I would be willing to go at any time of the year. I can also travel to near by cities or towns. We will buy a map of  Utah and find your cities and call (801) 465-0318 or Email me. We'll be waiting....Does not HAVE to be a veteran.
Kristen Cook 12/00

Arlington National Cemetery,VA

Sandie Terrien is available for Arlington National Cemetery
21May98
 
 

I live outside of DC so I can visit Arlington national Cemetery, or  anything south bound on  interstate 395 toward  Fredricksburg, Va. 

Christie Tomlin-Knoll
21Oct98

Milwaukee, WI

 I would be pleased to visit others' fathers laid to rest in the Milwaukee area. 
Anneliese Dickman
12/00